yap i have decided not to do with a chalet for my b'day, as it will involve alot of work and planning and stuff, i would just do it with a bbq, i think that is better and also nearer to my home, i dun have to worry about leaving coco, baby and nana alone at home if i had a chalet, my grandmother is turning 60 this friday and my mom's birthday is also coming soon in october or shall i have my bbq in east coast instead, boy am i confused....my caterer still havent given me the menu yet, as she is busy...oh well.....i need to cut my fringe.....